M65
Younger Females...
January 28 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
... are unique of course . However it does concern me at times. People have a right to speak out if they feel someone is vulnerable or being manipulated. And I don't think that is such a bad thing. KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
However the post that you are referring to, was of a concern for someone like myself (and others) because it would APPEAR (although we don't not know for certain...as we had little information) that the girl in question being of 19 years of age was not obviously aroused...and that is quite sad..and yet appeared to still go ahead and had sex with the parties concerned However as I stated....the OP gave us very little information to go on...and yet asked for opinions..so thats what we gave ..opinions........ You put a question up in a public forum..then you have to prepared to cop it from all sides. Some opinions/ideas/suggestions / advice you will agree with, others you wont..and others will challenge your thinking and ideology and it may force you to think outside the box...one would imagine thats why you put your question out there to get ideas, suggestions, etc You dont want to hear what others have to say - simple ..dont post...and no one forces any of us to read the forum either... Older with younger - younger with older...personally I dont give a damn....as long as everyone is happy and respectful and consensual..........my concern with the forum in question it appears that the 19 year old wasnt happy (as in not aroused) ... .yet the husband still had sex with her......but like I said...we just dont know enough info on the whole scenario and the OP has not enlightened us..we can only comment on what info was imparted to us I think most people would look at an overall person as a person..just as you stated Jay for any interaction...and if you found that with a 22 or 23 year old..then good for you - most 22/23 years old I know are still giggling over the sex advice column in Cosmo and wondering what dress to wear out next Friday nite..but thats my experience....with the one youngs today ...my experience only ...your comment sexually and mentally experienced in what exactly ??...LIFE ???..I would disgree with you but that is based on my own experience with young girls...in social settings...and even though I am bi I have nodesire to be with young people of either sex for my own reasons.. I dont think anyone had a real problem with the age of the guys she was with (not even me) I just feel that she would be better of exploring with people closer to her age bracket...but thats my opinion....its not a maternal thing for me ( I dont have kids) ...Im glad she is expanding and exploring her sexuality....my concern thru the whole post was the couple in this scenario......................if she was not aroused.........(and who knows why) what did they do about it ? now it would appear not a great deal (based on what the OP said) and there fore I cant say I thought very much of the husbands actions.....however again that is based purely on what the OP said.........cause that is all we can go on.... To be honest Jay - I find your post rather judgemental...whose exactly got their knickers in a knot here ???
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RHP User
13 years ago
was mentioned by the OP in that post.I don't think anyone castigated that couple because of her age.The issue that I had with that post was how the girl was treated. My question to you OP is would you ''enter '' a woman who was clearly not aroused or would you ensure that she was aroused regardless of her age?
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RHP User
13 years ago
The name of the other forum talking about...I don't know what it was called??Thanks.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes young girls are looking for a Daddy to show them the ropes, that is true. An older man is a turn on which I can completely understand. Young people are different to when I was 22 - 23. When I was that age I couldn't even imagine turning 30 as it seemed so old to me, let alone be with someone who is 50. I know I personally would never have done that in a million years. Times have changed since then. I am not sure which post you are talking about so I can't comment.
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RHP User
13 years ago
... can be found in Couples Corner, entitled "Can't orgasm"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Was posted in the Couples Corner and is called "Can't orgasm is it a psychological or medical issue?"
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
I agree with shinasbabe xxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
look under Couples Corner...''Can't orgasm is it psychological''
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RHP User
13 years ago
No one more than me would jump to protect any young girl I thought was in danger of being used or abused. My point was, there are girls who like to pursue their inner most thoughts and no one, including me' should get too up tight when they do. As Meeka said, 22 and 23 yr olds are different to day than in our day.. I can vouch for that...When I was contacted, I chatted but in the end decided to give it a miss' for no other reason than the chemistry didnt quite feel right.. But as I said in my intial post, had I felt something was good , it would be because I looked at them as a person first.. and take it from there..As far as being judgemental, I not sure why you would say that..? I wasnt trying to be judgemental, I was just pointing out what I observe and wrote about it.. ? It's only my perception, that doesnt necessarily make me right... Freya.. No way on gods earth would I try to enter any woman if I felt she was'nt receptive and ready.. Im just as puzzled as everyone else to why she would try .? Maybe she was just making the best of situation she found herself in , even though she didnt feel it... If it was me, and I didnt feel something was right, it wouldnt happen..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cant orgasm , is it a psychological or medical issue.. In the Couples section...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I manage a Brothel and as the male of slm114 let me tell you about my first experiences when i started at the brothel. I had older men, say in their 60s come in and meet 19 yo girls and ask me if i had any younger, my imediate inclination was to drag them to a mirror and ask what they could see that a 18 yo would want, i mean what are they going to talk about, music? Now to the double standard, when a young, say 19 yo male came in and wanted to stay with a 60 yo woman i thought good on ya. Before you ask, yes there are 60 yo women working in the sex industry and some are quite busy. And just to throw a curve ball at the above the young girls would tell me off, they like the old guys because they are easy, they don't want to throw them all over the room trying out the lastest porn movie trend.
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RHP User
13 years ago
we have 2 daughters....and if we felt either of them was in any kind of danger, or at risk of being taken 'advantage of'.....we'd step in, no problem whatsoever....but i have to say tho...that at 50, i just dont understand what the attraction is. young 'girls' of 19, 25 or even 30.......dont do a thing for me... and havent done since i was those ages myself...ffs my oldest daughter is in her early 30's, and i cant see myself with anyone her age....no thanks!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have been with an older man...20+ yrs older - attract to his friendship.I have been with a younger man younger (21) - attracted to his charm and cuteness.For me each one had totally different styles attitudes towards sex.Older man was more touch, kissing, more sensual, more in-tune with me and wanting to know how "I" felt - experienced.Where the younger - was just kiss, lick, suck, lick, suck, fuck, lick, suck more sucking, then fuck again - wanting to tell me how "he" felt - he also knew what he was doing...Both were matured in their own ways and sex was good - both brought enjoyment and something to the table...or should I say to the bed..When I was intimate with them no way did their age or anything like that pop into my head...My head space was in a good place and was occupied in the moment of being intimate as the love making was happening...I think I understand what you are saying Jay - that no matter what age or maturity each person bring something different.At the end of the day I believe it comes down to ones own responsibility in making a choice...Who are we to put others down for their right or wrong choices???
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm forever amazed that so many get their knickers in a knott about what other people are doing In my opinion this is quite a judgemental statement - as I reinterate, I dont think many people had problems with the ages of the people in question....what concerned most of the posters (if you reread) was that the girl in the post and yes 19 is barely a woman APPEARS to be nothing but a plaything for the couple concerned and while not aroused the husband APPEARS to have had sex with her for his own gratification HOWEVER the Op states very little in her OP yet invites comment...which we all did..baseon the little that she wrote You judge us all by the comments that we made - but as I said previously you put any subject up in a forum, you are inviting comments..just as you have now by postingtherefore you judged us with the above comment and then followed by: Seems the moment a young female experiments with anyone any older than herself a army of protesters jump up and down..did they ? In most cases these young women are sexually and mentally experienced and know what they want...do they ? Is it a maternal reaction that older posters get so uptight' - and so what if they did ? are you saying that we arent entitiled to our reaction to any given situation ..are you not judging those people ? I fully understand the gist of what your trying to say Jay....and I actually agree to a point but what I think most people were upset about was the husbands role in this..not the ages of all concerned Accordingly your opening post with what you wrote....you judged all of us because you didnt agree.....everyone is entitiled to their opinion and that opinion will be based on experienes and perspectives...however writing a forum on judging when one is judgemental themselves I find is a tad hypocritical
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RHP User
13 years ago
Settle down for god's sake.. I threw my thoughts up for scrutiny to see what others had to say.. I never dreamed I would hit a nerve.. I dont judge anybody and you repeating it over and over is totally unnecessary. BTW, for the record' my comment was not made after that one post. Its something I noticed over time.. IT WAS NOT AIMED AT YOU...or anybody else for that matter...We are all entitled to a opinion just as your demonstrating here.. so are you being judgemental to me ? is airing your thoughts being judgemental ? besides 'dont you think dissecting my post to make your point is a bit excessive. Complete overkill...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you.. Im glad someone knows where Im coming from.. I was seduced by a older woman at 17 ( she was 34 ) and most of the females I've ever been with have been younger' so I suppose I have a pretty good idea the way some of the younger generation think. Notice I said 'some'.. My preference is 30 + but if someone younger comes along and there's some good chemistry.. I dont say'' go away' others wont approve , now do you ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me'Settle down for god's sake.. I threw my thoughts up for scrutiny to see what others had to say.. I never dreamed I would hit a nerve.. I dont judge anybody and you repeating it over and over is totally unnecessary. BTW, for the record' my comment was not made after that one post. Its something I noticed over time.. IT WAS NOT AIMED AT YOU...or anybody else for that matter...We are all entitled to a opinion just as your demonstrating here.. so are you being judgemental to me ? is airing your thoughts being judgemental ? besides 'dont you think dissecting my post to make your point is a bit excessive. Complete overkill... Ive noticed you have been somewhat sensitive to anyone that responds to you in the negative... - first Freya last week and now me...time to perhaps think a little longer before hitting the "Post your comment" thread...?
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RHP User
13 years ago
" Is it a maternal reaction that older posters get so uptight " This is the bit that's confusing me. What exactly do you mean in this question?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maternal as is caring, looking out for people younger than you, looking out for someone who may be inexperienced and not know what they are going. In other words being a caring human being. Absolutely nothing wrong with that. However a 20 year old girl with a 50 year old man... Sorry my first thought is that she is looking for a father figure as she is looking for something missing in her life. I know it's a judgement, oh well.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes we'll nip out for lunch at the local food court, and he'll be pointing out women and making the "she's hot" type comments. The vast majority of the time, they're his age, or younger, and call me an old fart, but I just don't see it. To me, they're just too, I dunno.....young!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I appreciate that young girls could seek an older, more experienced man/couple as part of her journey in terms of the father fetish or whatever she's into ... and I do respect that moral, physical, intellectual and sexual development occurs at differing stages in chronological development for all. BUT ... he said he entered her when she wasn't wet. OUCH! She's 19!!! Man Up! Have lube ready!!! If that was my daughter .... You'd be in deep shit! (yes I'm old enough for that to be my daughter!!!)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hear me roar!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Meeka explained it very well, and was exactly what l meant. I dare say she explained it far better than l could.. Thank you Meeks you actually helped me out here. Pity about the derogatory ending, For what it's worth ' l have never been with a 20 yr old, My youngest was 24 and that was about 10 yrs ago. Nothing anyone can say ' can take away from this incredibley intelligent woman, who by the way a university trained journalist for a sydney tv network. age never came into it.. l never purposely go looking for any younger girl, but l dont hide if they show interest. ? Does'nt always mean sex comes into it.. Most the time it's a casual friendship thing anyway.
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RHP User
13 years ago
No, not sensitive, just have my own beliefs. I dont expect everyone to agree with what l have to say, but it does work both ways. Thats what forums are for, yes ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
is more to do with generation/age gaps and the amount of gullibility and vulnerability there is..Is that right Jay??
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RHP User
13 years ago
... I am at times guilty of the "maternal reaction". We all come to the forums with our own life experiences which of course mould our way of thinking. I have a story, and yes I can be protective, but I make no apologies for that. KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not quite foxy, but I appreciate what your saying because that holds so much truth.... I am more thinking of taking people for who they are , I never for one second think I'm doing anything wrong by talking to 20 + girls if they want to chat , I talk the same to anyone. I dont hear the 'JAWS' theme as if Im some sort of predator.. because quite simply' Im not, and I dont believe ALL young girls are that immature they cant think for themself ...But I take your point, I think that is where some of the other posters are also coming from...Jay...
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RHP User
13 years ago
More to do with meeting of the minds..mental stimulation..the connection not so much the age of a person....how well one relates. Yes we OLD (matured) Folk have that more maternal Instinct to protect and care...comes from life experiences. That does not mean tho that people should take advantage of using that maternal role to manipulate another for sex.... That I don't like.... As for talking/chatting to younger and younger talking/chatting to older....does it really matter??? who cares....I don't!! Having sex with younger vs older....older verses younger. I really do not care what others think...that's their issue not mine. Its choices.... able to make wise choices. Ones own Duty of Care. If on the other hand I see or hear of a person cross those boundaries of manipulating (say for example older person) persuading a younger....That is not OK.. I think with some people they don't know how to say "NO" or "I'm uncomfortable" in some situations due to being venerable or not experienced with life skills and wisdom...that's when it becomes a tangled web... I chat and meet to sorts of people..some I have had sexpal relations with others I don't....That doesn't make me wrong or right just makes me a human being accepting everyone is unique and special....I just get on extremely well with people cause of my empathy, understanding, relating to all age groups as well as having an open mind..But I won't have that taken advantage of.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cougars......Scotty where ARE you??
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RHP User
13 years ago
..... Grrrrrrr. Now get back in your box. :-P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters' Cougars......Scotty where ARE you?? lol He's BORED.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Awwwww, you're my girl.... at last, someone who understands exactly where lm coming from. Everything you had to say had me nodding.. We all have a duty of care to protect those less vunerable than ourselves. It is about how well we relate to each other, lm like you, l get along with all age groups. I find everyone has something to offer, just that some have more than others. Jay
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would never include a male or female playmate in my play who is under 30. I feel a bit like an old pervert if they are too young. Each to their own.
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madotara69
13 years ago
I don't think so either Jay_MeMado
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