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charity root???
December 08 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah I know guys like that, one of my friends was like that, he was getting turned down by many woman and now he has admitted to me he is with a woman he dosen't really like that much but he was sick of being alone and so to him it's better than nothing. Jaw dropping really, gonna end badly if you ask me. I'd rather be alone than lead people on like that. It sounds exactly like this.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You haven't said what you think of him...But personally, I think this guy is so way below you...i would just send a polite no thank you...and ask him to leave you alone....and tell him he had his chance...and that he hurt your feelings with his very poor choice of words...Is Armidale really that barren of decent guys...???CheersJose....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont know if women do this, but guys certainly do. As time passes, they get more ok with going outside the realm of their personal preferences and eventually are keen for whatever they think might be available. my advice would be, dont lower yourself to that level, you dont need to and it would be easy enough for you to find someone who is interested in you to start with, who wants to get to know you, and who isnt just using you for sex (unless thats what you want ;-) ) However, armed with this knowledge, you can always just use him right back! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey jose, i didnt put my feelings up because i just wanted to know opinions on how this guy is acting, not my feelings on the subject. but if you want to know, i feel insulted by the whole ordeal. is a pity though, i really wanted to go for that ride in his big truck... probably the only thing i like about him now....i havnt found any decent guys in armidale, if they are here, i have no idea where they are hiding!!! Tam worth is lots more fun though... thanks heaps for your post, i always love reading your posts and perving at your yummy lookin behind love jemma365-117-082
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'd take his first reply and stick to it like it was a gospel verse... but that's just me... no wait a minute.. Im not at all religious... I just do what I feel like. Yeah.. if you feel like shagging this guy go for it.. but only do it on your terms and when it suits you.. and treat him really mean.... you know.. push him to the side when your bored with him and show him to the door, lol. Lots of hugs sexy gal Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think you should be more considerate.......and tell him to "fuck off". I mean more considerate to yourself.I hate rude pricks
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds a bit suss to me... and arrogant.Hugs n kisses... Mrs P
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Hmmm... Lead him on a bit and then say all random and that......Then say ...." sorry I don't want to fuck you ".....get him to take you and your kids for a ride in his truck first .......I feel that you allready know that if do the wild thing with him it will trouble your concience.. Love and peace Tam
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Jemma....I wouldnt give him the time of day....if that's his attitude..and i wouldnt bed him..as he'd might take it asa reward for his..bad attitude...even if you feel like doing it with himBabe your way so much better than that if he wants free palm food pfft say look else where...by the sounds of it he has no respect..just my opinonxoxoxheymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Very few words and to the point... It's what you expect from those who are lacking social skills and finesse. With a nice bottom like yours I'm stumped why we would knock you back in the first instance... unless that was his way of being respectful... not wanting to take advantage of a first encounter. Or did not want to be seen as desperately needing it. I known many a blunt chap who inadvertently conveys the wrong impression... because they can't handle the topic and stay cool. Inexperience is another factor, then exacerbated by being given poor advice by his equally clueless mates. I was like that in primary school myself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jemma, A guy like that is a prick. Don't bother with him, he's way below you. You can do better than him and he does not deserve you @ all. Wayne x
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'd be telling him to fuck right off.....I wouldn't be giving him a second chance...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Jemma, you gorgeous thing... I think that the fact that you do feel offended by his behaviour means that you probably won't have a good time with this guy in any case, unless you can completely switch off and enjoy the purely physical. I know I wouldn't be able to. He does sound pretty awful though... "no, I haven't changed my mind" ???.... what a charmer! Agree with Tam, in that it would bother my conscience. Agree with Gaz, in that if you do do it, make it on your terms and show him the door when you're bored.
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RHP User
16 years ago
NO. The guy sounds like a massive tool. Sleeping with him will only encourage him to continue acting like a tool for the rest of his life. U owe it to humanity, and urself to never sleep with this guy. * btw i thought for the longest time this thread title was "clarity root" and it had me confused for hours. carry on.
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RHP User
16 years ago
its pretty simple- tell him to fuck off
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh Jemma! You ain't no second prize honey...tell him to take a flying leap! Plus, there are plenty more big trucks out there ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jemma, I agree with the majority here, tell him very firmly that HE is not good enough for YOU. Anyway, with an attitude like his it is probably an even bet that he would be a selfish and lousy fuck anyway. Hope it all works out K
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RHP User
16 years ago
depending on how many drinks were consumed, and depending if the guys said this to the group or whispered this to you....its possible this guy said it as a joke but it was absorbed in an insulting way as whilst the fuck concept was not in his frontal lobe it perhaps was a plausible or preconceived concept for you which meant the comment lead to disappointment or dismay. That's if the guy didn't actually see you as an option initially. If he did, its also possible this guy could have said this as some form of reverse phycology as it appears to be working if not for the awakening council you'll find from friends or those blogging in this thread. Women seem to 'need' validation alot which appears to be a bit of a curse because if a guy says he will not fuck you, as simple as it may seem...there seems to be a desire to prove him wrong to validate yourself by either venting about how much of an asshole he is to your friends or by fucking him, however following through with that action will leave you emptier than before. I think customer69 is right on the money here. He's not interested, knows you are 'an' option but not a priority option and has contacted during one of a guys many stints of horniness. Once again can't follow the flow of PC that everyone else is using here in a bid to appear flawless. Can't really say that this guy is a 'unique' tool as his actions are so transparent everyone should know what is going on and should know better. Also this behaviour is actually very common and both myself, other guys, other gals and even yourself are not immune from behaving in this manner. The fact is, nearly everyone does this, women less so because they seem to be able to control their horniness or get the partners they want more successfully, but we still all do it. He would probably treat his number one prospect with alot more respect and that girl would probably think he behaves like an angel. There is of course the scenario where his number one prospect considers him as an option but not number one and maybe told him "NO I WILL NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOU" which may be while he called you. All sounds a bit like 'He's not that into you' right? Just the social philosophy of day to day life i'm afraid.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am with Mooka and everyone here... He doesn't deserve you darlinxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx hugs n kisses sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxx P.S...Loved your profile by the way Jemma xxxxxx I felt like I was reading my twins profile..lol..
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RHP User
16 years ago
thankyou all for your wonderful replies. i need to add here that i know what i am going to about it. i am a little hurt, and majorly pissed that someone could see fucking me as "lowering their standards" or whatever, as i REALLY am not desperate and dateless!!! and im also not a "sure thing" geez, reading my profile should tell you that!!!maybe he saw me as "single BBW with small kids, she must be gagging for it"? nah, couldnt be further from the truth!im not going to sleep with him, but would still like to go for that ride in his truck... and his motorbike, and when he asks why have i changed my mind about fucking him??? you know what ill say? I HAVNT CHANGED MY MIND! LOL. i just dont want to fuck you! jhammer, he said that to me in front of everyone so all my friends could hear. but really i wasnt all that bothered about it at the time, but i too thought he was just trying so hard to get with my besty at that time. and YES she does think he is a complete angel!!! he treated her with so much respect to the point that it was sickening LOL. i showed her the messages i got from him and she was shocked. although it was no suprise to me! but you are right, it is a common thing, and not the first time it has happened when one of my besty's rejects has tried crackin onto me. Sonsie... if you know any decent men who drive the BIG trucks, honey let me know... mmmm i like big trucks and id love to go for a ride in one someday! hey... maybe i shud just be a truck driver myself? LOL. how funny.spankkrock OMG you cracked me up!!! i was in fits of giggles over your clarity root!!! ROFLMAO!!!! is it time for some new glasses... or a new puter screen? hows your ebusiness goin? lol. your so so cute!!!thankyou EVERYONE again, i am glad it is not just me that is thinking this. other opinions on things always help!!!!love jemma365-117-082
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RHP User
16 years ago
it sounds to me he felt he had something with your friend (in his eyes anyway) and also sounds like the "party" where he was told to "my friends told him she thought he should get it on with me" sounds like it was just for casual sex, (dont know if thats what you were after) maybe he now feels there was enough time to pass to "date" the friend of the woman he met.Of course with out being there its all just speculation, he may just be a major TOOL.
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RHP User
16 years ago
that is something that crossed my mind also... wich was why i felt confused by it all. maybe he didnt want seem like a tosser for wanting a good time with me straight after my besty rejected him? maybe he thought it classy to wait a while? although he might not of thought he would still look like a tool. lol. and yep, it was always meant to be for a good time not a long time. relationships? EEEEEEEEK! <<love jemma365-117-082
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RHP User
16 years ago
G'day Jemma, This fella sounds like a stooge, he has work mates looking out for him and he thinks he can make his own bed and get someone else to lay in it....Damn fool.. Don't you dare show him any skin. Charity Root... send him in the direction of the Salvation Army. They may not shag him but they'll give him a food voucher and that'll shut him up. And when your in Melbourne look me up.. Just don't send me to the Salvo's..
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey Jemma ...... nah hunny move him right along ....... dont ever settle for being second best hun u deserve so much more!!!!!!!!!!! ohhh and the truck thing pfft its just a car ... i myself prefer a man with a nice big deck ;) hehe for drinkin on that is !!!! or or u cud just tell him no sorry i like ur friend better lol hehe im a witch cheers funfun
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RHP User
16 years ago
make him want u baaaaaaad then meet up with him and tell him "i dont wanna fuck you"...revenge is sweeet
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RHP User
16 years ago
funfunfun09, dunno what the attraction for big trucks is with me.... but still dying for a ride... lol. i wish i knew some of his friends i would totally say what you suggested! LOLcassy_84 i had a perv at your profile, you beauuuuutiful gal you!!!! your my kinda girl.... if only you were into women too... *big sigh*. but yea, i did message him a little until he sent me a message at about 2am one day saying "palm your kids off to your besty one night when im coming through" this set off the little explosion of jemma temper, my kids ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS come before everything else in my life, no matter what. and whoever is interested in me need to take that into regard. so, i havnt even bothered to send him anything back, otherwise i fear my reaction would be a metaphorical ripping off of his balls and making him eat them LMFAO. thankyou all, im here for a good time like everyone else, but this has really proven to me i need a good time with RESPECT!!!! and i wont settle for anything less love you all my sexy rhp buddies, you are all worth your weight in gold. sophie, i think you are worth twice your weight in gold, coz theres not much to ya hehehehehehelove jemma365-117-082
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RHP User
16 years ago
at least you found out BEFORE you slept with him that this is what he thinks of you.It feels much MUCH worse to find out AFTERWARDS that you were the booby prize and he really wanted your friend.I would personally take great pleasure in teasing him....but continually reminding him that he's never gonna get you.Or ask him to set you up with one of his hot friends...lol!Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tell him to go and jump in the lake, if there is one that is!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I just find it so interesting that such a simple comment/s can consume the mind of a woman in such a way. Not only the days or weeks lost pondering the many interpretations of it, but it seems to drive many peculiar behaviours and actions steered around revenge or validation. There appears to be an inability here to let it go and fingers crossed this is not be due to lack of options, confidence to pursue other avenues or loneliness. I find such threads interesting in regard to the mechanism of a womans mind. This is a similar scenario where a gal continues to bring up conversation about how she couldn't care about a guy, however she keeps on bringing the conversation up. I am not sure if this is consciously or subconsciously. I'm wondering if you are trying to combat your obvious attraction for this guy with the supported logic of others as its well known that logic and lust are two separate driving forces that do not always work harmoniously and maybe i'm witnessing that battle here. I'm thinking without the council of others you may have pursued this option...you may still. But what amazes me is this guy disrespects you, calls you for a booty call and the only part you highlighted as a negative in this scene was the inclined perception that your children do not come first. Wow! This might be the missing piece of the jigsaw puzzle regarding why so many women get into abusive relationships....when they let logic call shotgun on the passenger seat and allow the intoxicated coercion of lust steer their life straight to the crash site. Regards, the voice of reason.
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RHP User
16 years ago
and to jhammer, have you ever really fancied a single girl and wanted her and has she ever said "Get lost creep" or i wouldnt fk you if you were the last man on earth or whatever? Doubt it very very much. Youre young yet. But even if it were a "joke" simply said on the spur of the moment, it was said. You can't UN-SAY things. Talk about putting your foot in your mouth or chatting before engaging brain scenario!! Im quite overweight and I wouldnt have him. I would think that he is NOT for me. He made his thoughts perfectly clear and its easily forgetable if he would just stop contacting her. Block him of MSN and if you must, only if you must, off your mobile phone contact once making it clear that your nobodys 2nd Best. Get over him, move on.
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RHP User
16 years ago
well well well, nope, im NOT desperate, NOT lonely and i have PLENTY of options thankyou very much jhammer!!! i have purposely left out most of my own feelings and thoughts on this subject, and the kids thing was THE TIPPING POINT for me, the straw that broke the camels back and all that shit, jhammer!!! there is no confusion between logic and lust here. i kinda think you might be making a mountain out of a molehill here!!! jhammer, thats not the only point that is a negative in this scenario, not by far, but it was the only point i choose to highlight at this time! theres a difference. thankyou for your imput though all the same! jemma365-117-082
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RHP User
16 years ago
he has run out of options, and is hoping ull fill intill another comes along
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jemma, It sounds as though you have already decided to decline him, which is what I would do if I were in your position, He may have originally wanted to sound genuine to your friend by not allowing himself to be seen as insincere to your friend, perhaps in his mind he was being tested. Either way, he dealt his cards right there and then, If you were to now accept his advances you would always feel as though you were his second or worse choice, thats not a good feeling in anyones books. I think, even if he was real good looking and you were keen to jump him, you would owe it to yourself not to give him any action, the cost to your self worth that is attached is not worth it. His opportunity came and went in one sentance.
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RHP User
16 years ago
The guy sounds like a doodle
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Jemma, don't waste your time with this guy - I've only read your initial post in this thread but he seems like a complete knob. He wasn't interested in you initially because he was after your friend, and now that she has a partner he's interested in you - this is rude and he doesn't deserve to spend any more time with you, especially after the way he told you he wasn't interested.A complete tool.
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RHP User
16 years ago
get your semi license and drive the big rigs yourself darl. tends to give a girl a phat arse but i always thought that was a good thing. lol, earl.
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RHP User
16 years ago
this guys got more front than woolworths , tell him he better get used to the company of mrs palmer, cause he aint gonna get any lovin from you.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Knowing a bit of your past....and what you have been through; ...put it this way...if you ended up having something to do with him, I'd slap you.You have worked to long and hard to be used as some clowns secondary empty....thats what he is basically putting out to you.Fuck that, you have more class than that girl.Hardnd
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tell him I said he should pull his head in before someone slaps him for making the team look bad. Without going into details just take from me, he's a knob, will always be a knob and i'll bet MY knob you could do much better.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Don't lower yourself by leading him on and playing games, just tell him "Never ever" and leave it at thatHotty
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Jemma, You go for that ride in his truck and have a good time... I once had a guy screw me over, dump me unceremoniously, then think he could come back and screw me some more - in a more literal sense. Every now and then I let him know what he has been missing, with no intention of letting him in again. This guy deserves that too...take that ride, have some fun, but don't let him do it to you again. xxCalam
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok Miss Jemma, what are you looking for? sex or something more? it depends on what you want from him. Don't get me wrong, but if you want pride, you should kick me aside. But if you dont take life seriously and are interested in fucking him, then go for him.I find it very simple, that guy is an idiot. Maybe he had someone else to root at the time and now he might have lost that person or doesnt have anyone to fuck. that could be one of the reasons why he is trying to get back to you
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Jemma, I am writing here to wish you a very Happy New year, lover. You are the best armpit licking partner a man could ever wish to find, so steal teh keys to his truck and go for a ride, then ditch that moron about which you speak. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
it sounds like the guy has a screw loose you be better off telling him to piss off and lossing his number
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jemma, you are a true Gem in a mountain of rock....After just reading all this and your profile, I wish i lived closer to such a wonderful sounding woman. I wish I drove a BIG truck, and not the little truck that i do drive....I wish my motorbike and I where "things" you would like to ride..lol.. I wish there weren't so many shallow people in this world like the dickhead you have encountered. Im sure you will find what you are looking for, its a shame we all have to sift some through some garbage to find something worth eating!!! Stay true to yourself. XOXO Mark
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Jemma, Hard to judge. Maybe he really liked you at first and wanted a relationship and thought that s not going to happen now and is out of options so the thought of sex is priority.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jemma....he sounds like a str8 up dick head.....i wouldnt waste any more time on him ........there must be better ways to get a ride in a big truck.....lol....Peter
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi, for what it is worth, I not sure about the motives of the best either, imagine a mate inviting someone over, not finding a connection and then suggests that I might be a sure thing. I think the girl would be hurt initially and would result in a similar response. Sounds like peer pressure and school yard antics. ask your friend what she really said to him and why Dzynr
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think u should post his name on here or even give it to me im sure he will looooove some sexy messages from a TS haha
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RHP User
16 years ago
hello loves---------,, i believe that while there was a chance of him hooking up with your friend he wrote you off in case he blew his opportunity with her,now that has died a natural death he's come back for second best,,,,don't waste anytime pondering over this deviate,,your much smarter than that and guys start being honest,, its what we all did when we were younger ,,at parties or the local dance,, we would always keep our options open,, unless the woman we were hunting wouldn't find out you nutted her best friend,,move on sweety and find your hunter,,,,,,,,,,,bren
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RHP User
16 years ago
why are you contradicting yourself,firstly you agree it's not the done thing and that he's a rude fella,,then next you want to be just like him just so the you can get revenge,, can't and am having trouble understanding you cassynever lower your own standards to join that of an arsehole'sjemm forget all about the charity root and go find someone who wants you as their first choice not the back up root,,,,,,,,,,,,,the reserve off the bench,,,,,,, ( bit of footy there jemm ) go the AFL
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RHP User
16 years ago
is he serious,girls who let themselves be treated like that?????
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RHP User
16 years ago
wonderful opinions, thankyou everyone!!!cassy, he is not on this site so the possibility of name n shame doesnt exist, and im not a namer anyhow!!!yep, i definantly would like to be someones first choice and you will all be very pleased to know that i havnt replied or contacted the person in question since i posted this forum last year!!!! thanks again everyone, love jemma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Jemma, He sounds like an up himself arrogant arsehole who does not deserve the time if day! Miss Fun xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Jemma, He sounds like an up himself arrogant arsehole who does not deserve the time if day! Miss Fun xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Could he have thought he was being tested by your friend? Did he still think he had a shot with your friend? Was he trying to show commitment to your friend if he was attracted to her? Everyone is assuming here without knowing the whole picture. He probably came to the realisation that your friend didnt like him and wants to enjoy your company, now he knows he is not being tested anymore.
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RHP User
16 years ago
c'mon guys,, it's what all us men did when we were young and dumb,,,,,,,,,keeping our options open and trying to score the best thing in the room at the time,,,,,,if you just want some sex jemm then go for it babe but a charity root????????? you've got more class than that CASSY_84 TELL ME SWEETY ,,why would you want to lower your standards to the level of that arseholes?????more important things in life than that,,,,,,,, karma has it's own way of sorting people that refuse to grow up look forward and up not back and down
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'lackoffun' why are you contradicting yourself,firstly you agree it's not the done thing and that he's a rude fella,,then next you want to be just like him just so the you can get revenge,, can't and am having trouble understanding you cassynever lower your own standards to join that of an arsehole'sjemm forget all about the charity root and go find someone who wants you as their first choice not the back up root,,,,,,,,,,,,,the reserve off the bench,,,,,,, ( bit of footy there jemm ) go the AFL notice the "HAHA" that means it was a joke pal
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