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men in chat

February 26 2011

So... i frequent chat often. Ok often is an understatement, A few times daily,lol Ok so here's my issue... I chat to some guys and i'm by no means refering this to all guys i speak to. However, some guys after a relatively short time chatting, sometimes minutes, get clingy and whisper as though suddenly im property and should not be talking to other ppl... Have a few "real life" friends who also have the same experience in chat. So i thought i would throw the topic out for discussion as to why Those who actually read my profile know im not looking for a guy, clearly state i am happy to chat, but atm sexually content with the current friend i have. Oh also what's up with the constant msn, chat requests and endless text messages ( being drunk on chat and handing out ur number... i know not a good idea,lol) When i am looking for a "fuck" i like to chase and not be chased... clingy and constant chasing feels like desperation to me and makes me dry up in a second forum newby...please be gentle

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hi Mz_fun, It's Express hereI didn't realise this was an issue in chat. It's not coolI am one of the guys that chats to Mz_fun and I can safely say that I have never pressured Mz_fun in any of those ways. I have read Mz_fun's profile and respect her wishes. Come on guys, be cool

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I've heard people say women do the same thing to guys in there so it's nice to know being inappropriately possessive is an equal opportunity sport! . While i'd love to know the 'why' too cos i'm naturally nosy, I doubt any 'do-er' is going to come forward and admit it/give their reasoning (wouldn't it be freakin' awesome to get it straight from the source tho?!) I think you're brave just for getting in there, keep doing your thing as long as it makes you happy! . xx Sarah

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    poor mz fun is one of the most genuine girls you'll find here - why do you lot insist on being a bunch of weird psychos...? i know its an adult chat site but if you treat women in real life the way you treat mz fun (and others here), then I understand why you probably don't have girlfriends..mz fun is nice enough to let you sit there are drool (/whatever) over her, and without question... so give the girl a break.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The guys in chat "whisper" women as they don't want every other woman that they are chatting up to know that they are chatting you up...if that makes sense lol! - I ignore the whispers when I am in there...actually I always "out" them (if they persist after asking them not to) for whispering to me otherwise every bloody sentence is a whisper! < It is hilarious watching them on cam when they are furiously typing away and then 3 minutes later a whisper comes up for you ... in between, you see other girls saying "thanks whisperer" hahaha! One guy got caught out so bad for whispering all the girls that he actually left chat for a while...he doesn't cam anymore where you can see him type lol. < Take it all with a grain of salt! xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Mz Fun, Is this because I asked you to marry me and put my mum on so you could chat to her? Wow talk about your basic over reaction.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    mz fun dont give out ur number when ur drunk lol. I think u might be getting all the attention because ur a hottie and everybody wants what they cant have

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    well this really isnt a personal contact mz fun forum... Charles u arent blocked, i have updated my profile, thus causing it to be locked till approval... which forgive me if im wrong, is written on the top of my profile when ppl try to view it. So in reality, the way ur going on about "being blocked" is kinda what this original post is all about... Besides had i decided to block u, for whatever reason (for which i have every right to do) who do u think u are to question or publicly attempt to be unblocked?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    that we are property after an hour. I find that too ,so your not alone. they seem nice enough but when you don't answer them for a few minutes they get all huffy and say" well i spose i will leave you chatting to the 15 others then" im like wtf . what if i am talking to others, i also have real life friends in here but i just think they think they are all that adn we should be pawning all over them. just let them be , if they want to really chat and get to know and make friends they will other wise ppfft :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i get really pissed of when in an adult chat site and room some poeple SSSSSSHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH whisper do what ever it is you have to do,,, take your skirt off ,,,, or swallow a cup of cement and harden the fuck up.your in an adult chat room for fucks sake act like it, if you say something that offends someone sorry sorry and move on. because it's proberbly a sure thing there not into what you are,i have never whispered in here and never will im a horny ADULT male live with it

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    MZ_FUN come now of course your someones property :P um yeah, but hey i can see where your comming from with this issue and unfortunatley those persons wont know any bettera/differnt until you let them know , so maybe sometimes it may pay to whisper a "fuck off" once and a while lol, but you can always just say it to me with out whipsering hun :P..... and as far as resons go its pretty difficult to generalise about peoples behaveure , everyones motivations are differnt.. some are wankers some arent haha... and some peeps may be having a bad day even all i can suggest is try not take things on board as much (easier said then done) and enjoy chatting with your mates and tell the others to piss off when its needed stay sexc MZ and keep smiling xoxo :D

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Heard of that saying? I think this could be a consistent complaint for you as long as you interact with men as often as you do, chat only once a day and the occurrence will lessen accordingly. Stop chatting and you may avoid being a target all together. Men (and women) will always seek a deeper friendship with someone they develop an affinity with. I'm off to play golf now and I doubt I will get undesired communication while doing that. Comprehende?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I hate it when I'm just trying to have a quiet moment in the chat room and a minute to get in a half decent perve and ... just when it starts to look ... ummm... interesting.... somebody whispers something totally off line to my train of thoughts.... and the moment is spoilt. really.. I know it's a chat room but don't people know when to shut up... hehe... I mean to say... can't you see Im busy! :plmfaoHugsS

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Mind if i ask where is it? i can't see the option for it.Sorry, a little new to this site!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Akinyemi'Mind if i ask where is it? i can't see the option for it.Sorry, a little new to this site! You have to be a paying member to get into the Webcam rooms! xFunlovingx

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