RHP

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starting the playing off

June 22 2012

Right you have chatted ,met up for a coffee and all is great everyone is keen to play so you meet up for a drink or 2 first then head back to a room and then is the scary time is who makes the first move or what s the best way to get things going just wondering what other people have done and does every one get as nervous about it as us all is good once everything is going but just wondering what others do

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    A quick round of spin the bottle ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    How do a "normal"couple start things off???It's no different.Just do it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Just another couple same age us and been together since they were 20. No Bi stuff,   Only playing with each others and our own partners. Dinner at a nice resturent, a 4 star plus apartment booked so we all know its play time.   After Dinner a game of strip poker, Boys vs Girls, Swap partners with stripping, but its a 4 way card way game. Never are two just just watchin.   Then ummmmmm all naked......suggestions ...some fun and hit the queen / king bed with two couples   ummm.....Who would like to swap partners while having sex with our own partners , if we had not allready played daisey chains and swapped.

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    14 years ago

    We went out for dinner with a really nice couple from here (you know who you are after reading this-lol). Had a nice meal,got on very well with them and we both found them very attractive and fun to be with.After dinner we dropped them at their hotel while we went and refuelled the car giving them and us a chance to see if we wanted to take things further.Got a text about 5 minutes later telling us to come back for a drink.We were working out the best way to get the ball rolling so to speak but that was never needed.As we walked in their room we were greeted by her on the bed naked with him naked going down on her. Left us no choice but to join in really!! Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    l can't even get past coffee before they are in my clutch's... actually l don't even do coffee. Book an apertment, i'l meet you there at 7:00 and you're cooking..I'Love foreplay Tell's oneself to start behaving like a respectable oldie.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    then there's massages, porn, If the girls are into each other, they can start of sexy dancing then rope the guys in. One couple can take the lead with their own partners and the other two can join as they want to.         Imagination is the limit....

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    14 years ago

    Shiatsu massage with clothes on gets them feeling comfortable with your touch and then you can move onto Swedish massage with some scented oils where clothes are off. Helps them to relax and gives them an excuse to get naked while also allowing casual brushing of the sexy bits to start the feelings happening and the play going. ET xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Cool, easy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Here4fun71; go with the flow, isnt that we we did years ago.....lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    And we have had a lot of good times since that first night we just met for a chat and a drink that developed into a lot of fun that night and a lot more since and a lot more to cum

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    anyone have any more ideas even some quirky ones

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    simple really, but works everytime

  • Two_Tarts

    Two_Tarts

    14 years ago

    If everyone is keen nothing helps break the ice and get past that awkward "shall we all take our clothes off" moment better that a bottle of Champagne and the suggestion of "why don't we jump in the warm spa". A few wandering hands under water and the fun just seems to flow. By the time it becomes obvious that dry land, or a snorkle, is required all the awkwardness seems to have melted away.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Waterbabes'simple really, but works everytime Fucken Hilarious!!! Love Waterbabes work !!lmao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Im with you Waterbabes ;)I hate awkward moments- you know what you want and what you all came along to do- why pretend that your playing hard to get (most of the time you meet on sites like RHP where everyone is posting nude shots anyway!).... I make it my job to get naked before anyone else has a chance to "think" about it- and things go real sweetly from there! My advice is be assertive, even if you dont think it is what you would naturally do - play a different role- you might surprise yourself !~ Vxo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    (Sorry, Cavey, but you never spoke up.)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Just say "so, how 'bout it?" Works every time :P

  • realcouple4u

    realcouple4u

    13 years ago

    If the girls are Bi , quite often they start and the guys join in , presto , but in saying that just do what feels comfortable , soon you will naked and who cares how it started

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    13 years ago

    Ha Ha cool I like it spin the bottle; it worked at school so hot great idea careful if it stops at a boy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We've found it pretty straightforward. Our first time out, we all just started to take off our outside clothes and since we were all grown ups, just kept going. I was naked first. I think it took about 2 minuts from the time we entered their hotel room. We had a real connection with the other couple, so it just felt totally natural.   Next time out, it was a lot slower. We sat around chatting for ages, then slowly ended up stripping each other.   Third time out, we met for a drink then went back to the hotel. I was sitting with the lady from the other couple and when I turned around, my wife and the other guy were stark naked and in a 69 on the floor. I guess they hit it off!I caught up pretty quickly after that...

  • Zsuza69

    Zsuza69

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903'(Sorry, Cavey, but you never spoke up.) I just pissed myself laughing nice one jensman lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    The transition phase is the hardest to manage I reckon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'here4fun71'anyone have any more ideas even some quirky ones   I haven't had the chance to try it yet, but I have a fantasy of starting things off by asking my wife "Why don't you suck that nice man's cock, darling?"   Other things that you can consider are:   - spas, which are a great way to get everyone naked really quickly, - just take the initiative and meet the visitors naked - blindfold the shyest / boldest person then everyone helps them get naked (gently!!) - games like strip poker or spin the bottle, but instead of the traditional socks / shirts / everything, start with underwear (I like challenges!) - rock / scissors / paper. Loser strips.   If you try any of these, report back and let us know!   :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    simple & straight to the point works for me every time.