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the power of a true Dom/sub relatinship
November 14 2025
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RHP User
6 months ago
Doesn’t have to be dom/sub. That’s one persons experience but from significant experience I can tell you it’s the strength of character, mutual effort and desire to understand each others vulnerability that create such intoxicating bonds. D/s is merely a conduit for this to take place, just like any other style of partnership. As for “true” dom/sub. I don’t know what the means, it’s a subjective term so it may need expansion.
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Sp_icemeup
6 months ago
I completely agree. A healthy dom–sub dynamic can be one of the most powerful connections two people share. It’s built on trust, communication, and a level of vulnerability you don’t often find in traditional relationships. When both people feel safe, respected, and fully seen, the bond becomes incredibly strong.
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MrandMrsEss
6 months ago
I’ll repeat the essence of what I said in chat. I don’t believe the dynamic in itself is the powerful bond, it is the love, care and mutual value that is the bond that allows people to explore whatever kinks they may have in a safe and positive way.
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Marquess
6 months ago
Omg this subject has been done so many times, yes a bond between Dom and sub , their relationship, their understanding, what suits the 2 individuals , no right or wrong. There is no cookie cutter answer, every relationship is different
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MsSuperFoxy
6 months ago
I get why people feel strongly about Dom/sub dynamics, they can be deep, intimate, and intense. But for me, calling it "the most powerful bond anyone could ever find" is a huge stretch. The strongest connection I’ve ever witnessed isn’t kink-related at all. It’s couples who’ve been together 50+ years. When one passes and the other follows not long after, that’s not domination, submission, or intoxicating energy. That’s two souls so intertwined that losing one, makes the other fade. That’s the real definition of powerful to me. Just adding another perspective to the chat. Ms Foxy
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Inflation
6 months ago
Psychologists have another word for it. Its called "trauma bonding"
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FunnyBum
6 months ago
In anything you do....be weary as there are alot of people who bend the rules to suit themselves and dom/sub can be fantastic and can also be very dangerous to someone who doesnt know what they are doing.
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