what has worked for me on RHP and what has not

I have been on and off RHP for maybe 15 years. We will all have different experiences. This is my summary of what worked for me and what has not. WHAT WORKED 1. I met women. Lots of women. And overwhelming lovely women. Several of the women are still friends years later. A few are FWB. In the last year most of my sexual connections were with women I've known for some time. Other women are now just friends: good friends. 2. By meeting women, I teamed up as a couple with a few. Through that we met couples as a couple and enjoyed going to events and couples parties. Even hosted parties. In fact I think is RHP is best suited for couples. In all the time of meeting couples most were lovely people. Yes maybe a few weren't a match but it doesn't mean we didn't like them as people. 3. The events have been great - especially as a couple. I've been to some events where single men were invited. The key being just be social and friendly and have no expectations. What happens happens 4. Absolutely personality trumps physicality. People are all shapes and sizes, Sure some want the body beautiful and thats their right. The men and women who stood out was because of their social skills, sense of humour, earthiness and just being real people. The ones you would never guess would be in this lifestyle WHAT DID NOT WORK 1. Trying to meet people travelling. Yeah met a few but mostly chatted and got ghosted, read messages, no reply, nothing. Had one memorable weekend in Sydney where my FWB and I met 2 couples at a pub and had the best time. One other time we met a lady who told us that in 3 years of trying we were the first real couple she had met as mostly idiot men pretending to be a couple. HINT HERE !!! 2, Unverified profiles. Seriously if you are unverified it's a red flag. OK single women maybe not as they will get inundated with messages. But if u r a ‘couple’ unverified nah caution caution 3. Men. Idiot men killing the site. Women are now more cautious than before.