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Kinky Not Easy
January 11 2017
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your comment sounds a bit homophobic. Sorry, but for me, the ass is not an essential part of sexual play but very nice with the right partners, and very satisfying for a lot of men. So your suggested replies ?? Sorry, nothing personal, but this open sexual world we play in, those kinds of comments probably won't fit too well, certainly not with me, but each to their own 😃
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madotara69
9 years ago
the frustration extends to the message you have not received, it so seems. If you want a daddy, then maybe you are not asking the right questions, expectations, want for better understanding etc, thus discombobulated by the efforts of what appears to be, ' those with the intellectual capacity of a toasted muffin', maybe true, maybe an terminological inexactitude, respectfully. Oh but for your empathy to shine, now never a better time girl. Cheer up, kinks are cool, some are here simply to get a hit of dopamine by pressing the send button more so than what is sent, they like your picture, this is all about them, you are a digital fantasy of some who are addicts of the 'likes' of the ' www., surely no intentions to upset you so such as, would be foreseen by these people alike, we all have our thing. I think, respecting someone, does not mean looking up to, or a better person, you can be yourself, equal, and that's cool :) Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'LaFemmeFontaine' I almost laughed my wine through my nose! Thank you Darling! What a brilliant come back! - Posted from rhpmobile See, you are already having fun with it. Great to hear. Oh and I_touch. Those comments are neither my beliefs nor a direct shot at anyone or anything. I was merely trying to give an example to back up my position. I thought they fit the initial messages quite well.
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RHP User
9 years ago
you have stirresd a worthy pot here all I see after being off this site for over 5 yrs is a lack of respect. We are all on this site for a reason and they do differ but some people just have no respect and yes I agree predominately uneducated males. Peace xx drops the Mic
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RHP User
9 years ago
This is one of those inevitable things about the online experience. Getting mad about only hurts you - some of the are trolls looking to ruin someone's day but most think those approaches set them apart / get your attention. I block and move on happy that they made that decision really easy for me. Anyone genuinely interested in building a rapport with someone isn't going to post that rubbish. If I'm going to receive a vile message at least make it interesting. I've been lucky that 99.9999% of people will be respectful when I've responded that I'm not interested. The ones who were rude about it tended to be the "Hi how r u?" ones. As for the gangbang question - doesn't make a difference. Some people think being open about sex means we are DTF anyone. Like a walking glory hole. Doesn't matter what we are into. The experienced ones learn that we usually more discerning because we want 'more' out of our sexual and interpersonal experiences - intellectually and physically. The experienced ones understand that if I just wanted my holes filled I could walk into in any bar and get it from any number of randoms.
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Seriously , You're being presumptuous there.. If as you say a man need's to be louder than the dickheads to get attention he deserves everything he gets.. and that's sweet fuck all. All that means is he's expected to join dickheads , not stand apart. One of the reasons I'm a guest is because I refuse to be treated with the contempt some like to dish out. I'm content to bide my time and wait til someone contacts me . That way I know they're serious about being here and not looking to man bash... Besides ' no one puts this lil black duck in a corner...😜
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RHP User
9 years ago
So you don't know how to get a woman's attention without being an arsehole?!. It's not what I meant but hey, stand back and waiting is a good strategy too. :p Waves to Jayme in the friend zone. Haha.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nice and if anyone is up to organise...... I am keen for a bi gangbang...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
9 years ago
That was like getting a smack in the mouth then getting it kissed better.. lol.. Truth is , I wouldn't know how to get the attention of a woman being a arsehole.. Never tryed ... In the meantime , I'm just happy to bide my time.. No point in being lumped into the dreaded single man catogory for no other reason than being male. Waves back at ya... 😎
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jedi_knight
9 years ago
I use a pretty simple filter .....spelling and a coherent message ! If a person can't communicate at a decent level ...no matter what their pics look like ...they are not for me!
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RHP User
9 years ago
No matter who you are or what cooks your goose respect goes a lot further than some person declaring what they want to do to you. The last person that tried that on me got told point blank he'd best look else where because I wasn't a porn queen or a prostitute. Just a normal woman looking for a bit of fun. Amazing how some think it's all about them not mutual respect and fun between 2 consenting adults. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You say if a person can't spell or communicate properly, they're not for you? Are you serious? So you meet strictly Australian, no tolerance for the millions in our country who weren't born here, English isn't their native language? I'm also offended on behalf of those who struggle with the language for other reasons. People do the best they can and different factors can influence their ability or opportunity to learn. It's just not a black and white issue and a lifelong struggle for some. Sorry, your filters are your filters, we're here for our own enjoyment, but I was a bit saddened by your comment
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RHP User
9 years ago
No you're not an asshole, bless your little cotton socks 😘 and I like that you're not an asshole. Now can you tell me how not to be one? 😎 I'm trying, I'm really trying 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well done Sir! *waving* Enjoy your day. It's certainly a hot one. Today I shall also be standing in the shade. :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
People are attracted to what they are attracted to. I'd only get offended by jedi's comments if he said that people who people who had terrible spelling or communicate were useless wastes of space. He says that they are things that attract him - in the same way that you frequently express your opinion about the kinds of people you are attracted to, and what you aren't turned on by. Given that much of this thread is about the importance of communicating what you want, and creating a connection with someone based on messages, I think it's completely appropriate.
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RHP User
9 years ago
To be honest about this people see dominance as king there WRONG. The sub had the dominance as at any time it does not feel right it's stops. It called a Safe word plan and simple - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
9 years ago
that's easy. ... you're a lil black duck too. Lil black duckies often lead with their chin then deal with the consequences later... 😜. So don't change anything , you're made of that dinkum stuff that you just can't bottle. Out there , entertaining , sexy , so what you worried about ? 😀. 🔦. 👌
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Sawadee
9 years ago
Sir. ? I can't even remember being dubbed .. but if you say so it must be true.. Could be the heat ? Sir Jay... Got a nice ring to it.. huh .? 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
When I get messages like that, I just have a laugh at the sender and tell fact that they are so disconnected from reality that they think those kinds of messages are wanted. Or perhaps they get off on knowing that most women are shocked my messages like that. With way, those kinds of men get about two seconds of my time while I block them. Then I move on! No point getting your knickers in a knot and all worked up over idiots. Who cares? You'll be better off if you stop allowing ransoms get to you. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Or the Aussie beer belly hick is rampant onhere and its sad.Don't give up you will find the right guy whowill put you first and your needs.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...for someone with an imperforate command of the English language. Doubtless verbal evisceration followed. Sic 'em tigress!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm more for finding out the only way to know!!!! Less talk more action!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
To all who have added their thoughts, humour and hummannes to this thread. I've had a great laugh at some and have chosen to disregard others. I suppose forums such as this are a little like the petri dish of life - all manner if life magnified there amd not all of it good. I have really appreciated the genuine effort and the messages that followed. No longer wet behind the ears when it comes to writing here - I'm a lot less intense and less shocked at what is sent in messages. I do not believe in being cruel, certainly not it can be avoided, we're all in this gig called life together. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Now if only you were Bi-Curious...Mmmm. Wouldn't we be blessed, the pleasure would certainly be all our's and we most definitely would treasure having you devour that appetite which wants to come out!! When all the stars align. 💑 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...sounds like a fabulous idea. 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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johnisfun3
9 years ago
I would suggest to delete these kind of messages and move on. Some of these mean low life clowns are not worth the frustuation they can cause. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Direction and control are both folly which partners/ sexual or other gain connection with. Pleasure is about being introduced to an idea which is yet to be had. Can't do that every day?!? Time and "other" experience pays like a warm touch on a cold day. You can't dictate the weather. Intensity, like any measure on a scale would give to pleasure for each person "wanting/needing/craving" said experience. Looking forward is planning, cocking your head and looking around the room gives dimension. Live, fuck, love, laugh, scream, cry, pant, beg, crave, enjoy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Best post ever - so I took a look at your profile and was gobsmacked. I'd like to share a conversation with you over a coffee or 10. (Have grounded since this thread was posted). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well said!! Even as a female Dominant, I must say I know exactly where you are coming from. I constantly receive messages from men who seem to have mistaken me for a fetish fantasy dispensing machine. In fact, I am a member on fetlife and a few of my friends in the scene have heard me say the very words you used as the subject line for this thread. I am kinky not easy!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Forgive me my question: By why would you be on your knees if you didn't want to be there assuming it's a part of you wanting to have fun with someone else. Maybe you are beeing balanced on the border of what's acceptable and whats not, however shouldn't everyone be there by his own free will? And shouldn't the one balancing you know you enough to catch you to moment you start to fall?
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RHP User
9 years ago
I forgot: about your inconvenient messages: The nicest gems are hidden within the most mud, ignore the mud, maybe you ll find a lovely gem within the messages another day... Doesn't help but has a nice ring to it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Kinks or connections. Seems a lot of people on these sites have one common factor and that is the drive to want to push boundaries. Maybe it's the strong connection we all seek to explore these kinks. But then people that form connections fear creeps in and maybe the Kinks are suppressed and the drive of pushing boundaries is put to the side due to fears. I found what I thought was someone to explore bdsm as early on he established such a deep connection with me. But when I actually questioned myself and not merely acting on impulse It was clear he had no intention of loving me. I was drawn to him as he could clearly entice a woman to bring out my competitive side of pushing the boundaries using the loving connection we formed. I was a pawn in a game, that is all I was to him. He walked straight past me in public not even acknowledging my existence after we had been very intimate for quite a long period of time. Also basically filled me with hollow lies after his game was over. So I guess the whole kink side of me I question as to whether it's just a mental game of pushing boundaries. I have so many other healthy avenues to push boundaries now. Do I miss this guy for sure. But I can't keep disrespecting myself, I want a healthy person to complement me not a competitive person who just Idealizes, devalues then disregards without even realising the pain they put others through. I want to share with others not be with a guy that only wants control. I love control but in a respectful manner of communication. He would have to relinquish control to communicate and well not sure if he is capable :( At end of day it comes down to respect for yourself first. Que sera ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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