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May 27 2011

Maybe not a question, more a personal observation. Quite alot of men write things on their profile that aren't very accurate. (being tactful) example--" l will give oral all night till you beg me to stop"... meaning l will give you a lick or two and thats it... or" l can last all night, hope you can keep up with me"... meaning 2-3 minutes of pumping, l am sooo good... l dont mean to judge but if a man offers good oral then l expect it. Size isn't that important but when told he boasts 7-8 we arent talking cm's are we. l am sure women may not be 100% honest either but that doesn't affect me.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Back to OP's original post: I just like to have fun and enjoy myself. I don't personally set time limits or anything like that, but women are surprised by how long I go (explicit comments made to me). It's more because I love what I do, take pride in it, and aim to please. Anyone who sets time limits -- can you really enjoy yourself and go the distance when you're constantly "watching the clock" so to speak? I think if you're relaxed, having fun, and enjoying yourselves, time (as usual) will fly by, but really won't matter.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It comes down to the fact that a lot of woman are after the playboys, plain and simple, always has, always will be. I give up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    HeavenlyBiscuet... You mean some... not alot, in fact very few... Most woman I know including myself avoid playboys like the plauge.. The majority of us are not that naive ... Now thats the way it really is, and always will be... Only a misguided male would make a statement like that. Pffft..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    If women weren't so choosy, then men wouldn't lie to them. I suppose this is what happens when presented with so much choice. In my case, my profile is 100% accurate. No exaggeration, no bold boast. I'm a nice genuine guy with a full time job who treats all people with respect, yet my response rate is so low over 3 months of subscription that I question "why bother?" In all that time, I've only met one person & now feel that I'm forced to lie to get ANY response - let alone a meeting - but I won't. Because of this false world of the Internet, I'm not a platinum subscriber anymore. Why should i waste money here, when I have more success & meet more genuine people in a pub? There's your answer, ladies. You reap what you sow. I welcome your response, because I'd love to know what you want to read & see in a man. Clearly the truth is too boring.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Women can afford to be choosey. Ever stopped to think how many actual liars there are out there trying everything and anything just to get a root. ? If we become defencive, can you blame us ? You yourself said you are forced to lie to get any response ? If thats the case, I agree, go back to the pub. You wont feel the need to decieve anyone there.. Mrs JJ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm sure you have a great personality somewhere.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    So we all bitching.... so what do we women want TELL THEM FOREPLAY: Long lasting not just a quick lick but lots of long lasting licking and rubbing of the clit!! finger fucking to make you nice and wet LOL teasing a bit wouldnt go astray and a bit of naughty talk cetainly is a turn on guys,stimulate those nipples!!! (.) (.) and make sure you make her cum before YOU because there is nothing worse laying there when the guy has cum and you havnt and then thats it.... and he doesnt even seem to realize it. Sexy kissing around her neck and all over her body OK ready for the taking LOL THATS LESSON NUMBER 1 STAY TUNED FOR THE TAKING!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Your brain is the most sensitive organ you have. Perhaps if you think of the best sex or even just sexual experiences you had and remember occasionally, i bet they got inside your head first. Nothing better than a mind fuck, but it's not always possible with everyone you meet. But with the ones that it happens, by the time you go down on her, your both ready to blow each others mind and body anyway. As for the false promises of some blokes, well they are just insecure or self absorbed. Like the girls commenting here, I've had the lousiest head you can imagine sometimes, thinking i'd ratber be having a wank. Maybe work on the mind and your body will follow.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    well said basil so true..... The mind is all part of it and the lead up between two people can be a great turn on if followed thru but i guess you have to have that connection... i do x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Through a work training course i came across the motto "underestimate and over deliver". seems like this could apply to RHP profiles

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i am abloke i do not know what to say whith out being crude or rude i am just a new age man not a weardow just do not know how to say to girls i am lonley and love all girls not weard thereboobs are sexy to suck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Maybe that's how things are done in Sydney, but normal guys don't need to BS once they stop wearing short pants. Or am I the one who's wrong? One thing's for certain though: the more that people BS, the more we come to expect it. A truthful & honest person then gets washed out with the tide of turds at Bondi. Like attracts like, so don't BS, lest ye be BS'ed yourself. There's already too much insincerity in the world as it is. I find women are shocked & surprised to find an honest man - often they don't know how to handle me. Sad, isn't it? That integrity is the exception, rather than the rule. I suppose this is what one gets in the online world. It's much harder to hide the BS when face to face with someone (& unaffected by drugs/alcohol) at a pub or club.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    To funloving, yep plenty of BS artists out there, but that's how guys get their women. As soon as women stop believing it & seek the honest man, only then you'll find those guys who deliver on their promise of good oral - or whatever. Personally I find I have a low strike rate on this site BECAUSE I'm honest. that says to me that people (women) don't want to hear the truth. By the way, I'm not bitter, just aware.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The mind is a powerful tool and if stimulated to its fullest potential can be a very erotic experience for both parties!! The build up, the imagination and the foreplay to the eventual meeting if the connection is there is mind blowing, you only hope to get to meet people on the same wave lenght to have this experience. Maybe someone is patiently waiting lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    At no point did I say I lie. I said I feel that I'm FORCED to lie, to be at least on par with every other man on this site. Perception is reality. However, I've chosen not to & the results haven't been as hoped. Perhaps it's my profile. You say women can afford to be choosy. Yep, we all can. I'm choosy also, as I like to know further, the character of a woman before I choose to sleep with her. In response to your assertion that there are so many liars trying to get a root: everything is cause & effect. Yes there are those men - & I'm sure most women can easily pick them. As I don't tend to frequent establishments where there is a sleaze factor present, I see little. Where are you going, that you experience this so often? I wouldn't blame anyone for being defensive against that type of behavior. Nobody needs unwanted attention, at any time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    WELL SAID X

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    DOES IT FOR ME MUZZA MIND BODY AND SOU....L I WONDER WHO IS PATIENTLY WAITING???? THATS ALL THE FUN OF IT XX

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I never understood the need to brag myself. Sure it sounds impressive but most peope can smell the facade a mile away, and if not, well you just look like an idiot when you finally do get some action. Personally, I'd prefer to let my abilities speak for themselves. Pretty sure most of the amazingly skilled Don Juans who leave the women begging for more (if they even exist) do the same rather than advertise it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Twoozfun, yes I am patiently waiting for a special friend that i have connected with in mind & soul. I tend to have had a uncanny connection with her, we talk regularly and seem to be of the same mind. It is so bizarre to meet someone over the net, have an almost instant connection, someone you can laugh with, converse with & also be there for them when they are feeling down to hopefully pick their spirits back up. I dont know if you have a special friend out there that you can relate to in the same way, but if you are fortuante to experience this, let me tell you it is a special feeling that I am sure will only be taken to a higher level when u meet up with that person. Some times distance is a bitch and frustrates things but when I do finally meet up with this person, well lets say I am very much looking forward to it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Only thing that isnt accurate on my profile is length. Because i honestly havent gotten around to measuring it. (know how long an inch is so i just guessed)I prefer non-penetration, which means besides a BJ or a HJ, i cant come (unless she is Bruce Almighty's twin sister). For me, i am happy to not get off at all. Even keep my clothes on in fact. Only time i would do penetration is when i was asked and it feels right to perform that function for the girl. I only joined this site strictly for foreplay only. Even written so on my profile. I dont have a need to get myself off, so i only do what i can to get a girl off. (besides if i wanted to get off, i would do it solo)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I don't brag but I think an intellectual connection and atmosphere are important to satisfy with the opposite sex. Hey thats just me. Some of my mates do everything 'way out there' to give a lady pleasure and others have never even done oral sex yet ! Is it too much to say that a number of times together counts also? Like getting in tune to each other so-to-speak?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Wow by the looks of this all the attention goes to the guys who DO talk themselves up, maybe i should get into the practice of it :P.   I don't understand why people would lie on here, if you do meet up, your gonna get found out :/.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm sure most of the women commenting are totally justified in their comments :-)I don't know whether i am a rarity or not but I challenge anyone to find anything on my profile that isn't true in actuality :-)

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